When you’ve spent years in survival mode, abundance can feel unsafe. Ken shares why “baby steps” are life-changing and recommends using the tools in his manifestation book—like resentment lists and journal work—to safely dismantle the protective walls that are now keeping you limited.

Ellen Debenport:
Okay. So this is an interesting one. When someone has spent years in survival mode, what’s the first manifestation practice you recommend so abundance doesn’t feel unsafe or unreal?

Ken Daigle:
I recommend diving into the shifting of consciousness.

So if you’ve been in survival mode, if you’ve been traumatized, as many have and I have, you build these walls to protect yourself, and they were useful when you were in that moment. And if you’ve ventured beyond that, now that you’re recognizing desires for something greater, those things that used to protect you now keep you limited.

So being able to dive into the processes and the processes of shifting your consciousness, the journal work, the resentment lists, the levels of consciousness, and look at how you’re operating, excuse me, and where you want to go is really important work.

Now, I want to be really clear, I did not do this alone. I had great teachers, I had great ministers, I had great therapists. I had great support, sponsors in my recovery groups and 12-step groups, all of which helped me to overcome some of those traumas and some of those barriers I had erected. And to be honest, a lot of the self-sabotage I was doing to be able to get to a place where I was able to receive and create good in my life.

And so I would say, Baby steps are not small for the baby. Baby steps are incredibly life-changing. So wherever you are, take the next incremental step that you can do to move forward and to shift from what is to what could be one step at a time. And that’s actually how everything has changed. You know, James Clear, Atomic Habits, all the research on that now, every change we occur in life is incremental. And that’s why the book’s laid out over time. That’s why it takes a process to change. It’s like there is no wholesale instantaneous change. All change is incremental. And then you look back and go, wow, I got here so quick. Right.

Ellen Debenport:
Years to become an overnight success.

Ken Daigle:
Wait. Decades of writing about abundance to finally write the book about abundance.

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About Ellen Debenport

Rev. Ellen Debenport is the Vice President of Publishing & Content at Unity World Headquarters. A veteran journalist, minister, and author of The Five Principles, she oversees global strategy for Daily Word and Unity Magazine. As a strategic collaborator on Unapologetic Manifestation, her editorial vision was key to framing the book’s practical approach to holistic abundance.

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Unity is a global spiritual movement and premier publishing house founded in 1889. Based at Unity Village, it is a leader in the New Thought tradition, emphasizing the practical application of spiritual laws to daily life. Through Unity Books and the Silent Unity prayer ministry, the organization provides research-backed spiritual tools to help individuals rewire their consciousness and manifest a life of purpose and prosperity.

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Ken Daigle

Ken Daigle

Teacher • Author • Speaker

Ken is the author and creator of Unapologetic Manifestation - 5 Steps to Create the Life You Want, a book that offers a grounded, practical approach to creating meaningful change — without hype, pressure, or spiritual bypassing.

Formally trained in the New Thought, Ken holds a Master of Divinity from Unity Institute® and Seminary and has served as Senior Minister of Unity San Francisco since 2013 — part of a global spiritual movement rooted in New Thought principles that emphasizes the creative power of thought, spiritual healing, and practical spiritual living.

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